Patience, DB, Detach... piecing or divorce

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I can take harsh. Ive had much worse than that. She is far from comfortable she is F'd up and has a hard time dealing with life. She has anxiety not intimacy. She says she isnt dating anyone and said she is scared she would find out that I was yesterday. She is anxious around her mom and around our daughter. And around me. She blames me for everything but now that Im trying to take a step or 10 steps back she continues to have issues. I still think life is going to hit her in the face.

It [censored] to feel this way... but Im thinking more and more that if nothing changes after three months of support I agreed to she can choose to work on the marriage or I am going to choose divorce.

The just been busy when she asks about seeming detached... will do next time. I never recognize the temp checks. Need to work on just not caring... Thanks coach Loves.

Appreciate the advice. Ill do it.