ahh man hong..I feel for you man. My cousin went through a nasty divorce a few years ago. His W was a serial cheater.
He is a well known business owner in a small community and everybody knows everybody and their personal lives.
She was cheating on him with one of his employees and then another AF with a guy who lived down the road. So it happens to the best of people. I told him about my problems and my bad days. He said There will be High Peaks and Low times. The good times are something to look forward to. Right now your in a low. Just know it won't last forever. You will get back to having a high point. Yesterday and today I have been down in the dumps. So just try to think positive. You will find work, just keep trying. I have a great job and have lost all my interest and drive since my WW left. I hope I don't lose my job. My boss is fully aware of my sitch but eventually we have a job to do. I run a store with 4 employees and its hard to be a leader when you don't feel like it anymore. Im rambling and hope its taking things off your mind for a sec. But, keep the faith man. Your in a low today but you'll get a better day soon. Take action and be strong. The ladies like a man who is taking action and doing things. Sometimes I just do little things like make my bed and do the dishes just to feel like I accomplished something. It only takes a few things to make yourself feel good.
When my W left for time and space, I was so naive about what was about to happen. Now I am in the trial of my life and W is in a PA and wants a divorce yesterday. I have to put this happy face on like I'm doing fine.
So like everyone says "You're not alone " My W just came and picked up the kids...she knocked on the door..lol the door to her house she lived in for 16 years. Oh well...I made sure I looked good and wasn't all down in the dumps.
You will be fine. I promise . Keep your chin up today. I will check back on you later.


ME 47 W 38
M17 T20
Separated 5/20/18
D-bomb 7/9/2018 Nothing Filed
4 kids ages 6, 10, 14, 15