So I did not reply to her text. I get home and she try to call. I sent an auto reply "I will call you. back" She replied OK. So I wait a while knowing she wants the kids, so I call her back. She wanted to make sure my 6s bag was packed. Then she asked if I read the text. I said "yes". lol.... anyways she said " are you okay with it?" I said I don't know yet and that I am still thinking about it... she wanted to know what I need to think about...I basically said that I needed to look at schedule and see if it will work...so thats what she would say to me... She said well let me know so I can make arrangements etc... I said ok is that it?? she said yeah ...ok Bye. I have to admit I feel like I wasn't being Mr Nice Guy but at the same time ...I miss her and liked hearing her voice... I know "weird" But its been a rough couple of days for me....shes reaching out to me and Im acting like the GAL guy...I hope she is wondering a little?... Thanks for letting me vent to whoever reads this mess.
update from yesterdays post
So today is another day. My W picked up my S yesterday. Today I got a call from her asking if I decided on the schedule swap next week. I said that I was still kinda thinking about it and would let her know later today or tomorrow. She asked if I could give her an answer tonite. I said yes probably could do that. The only reason I am hesitant about taking the kids back next Wed is that I know she has plans that night to go camp with her work friends and most likely OM. So I was debating on just saying I would take them no problem or I could say No, I have plans on Wednesday, but I could take them on Thursday. That would really frustrate her if I did that. Anyone have any advice on this one? Should I just take the kids or make it so she has to keep them so she cant go have fun?. Regardless she still might make arrangement with her parents to watch them.
Last edited by Cadet; 08/16/1803:35 PM. Reason: combine posts
ME 47 W 38 M17 T20 Separated 5/20/18 D-bomb 7/9/2018 Nothing Filed 4 kids ages 6, 10, 14, 15