jay, you were already at LRT stage at BD, in my opinion. You don't have to make a hasty decision and you can tell your W that you need time to process things. If she wants to move out then tell her to do so and that you're not stopping her.
You really should come to an agreement with her regarding visitation, as well as finances, and it should be as equal as possible for visitation and as reasonable as possible for a financial agreement. You also need to get yourself an L if she's moving this fast on things. You need to protect yourself and your rights to the maximum possible extent.
Yes I agree I’m at LRT stage, but to be honest now I’ve had a few weeks to process this sitch and also found a new lawyer today who thinks I have a pretty strong position, I’m almost ready to let W go and move on with my life.
Me:48 W:43, Kids:S19, S17, S10, S8 M:10 years BD:06-18-2018
