Davide: One thing, maybe you or someone else can help with.
My wife functions more on emotions, and I'm more analytical. So for me, a big part of me is now thinking along these lines: It's August. If we can get the house/yard together and ready to show by the end of the month, with a lot of luck we may get it sold by October. Maybe we can both find places, and get this all settled by November or December. The reason (to me) that that's important is because, if we piss around for a month or two, we're not going to be able to do anything in the middle of winter. which will be a nightmare.
So, am I nuts for thinking about bringing that up to her? I know that realistically, if we proceed with divorce, this is the best plan of attack for us financially. But should I just ride it out for now?
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
