Terapin,

You are still too focused on her, which is normal at this point. You need to be doing things for yourself regardless of her. So definitely don't have relationship conversations unless she starts them, and even then I would listen and validate for the most part. You definitely shouldn't stay in. You should get out and lead your life. Go to a restaurant, find friends to hang out with. Exercise. Join a meetup group. Get out of your comfort zone. Obviously your GAL time is limited by your son, but make it a point to get out and do new things.

Hang in there. It is a rough ride, but you can make it through.


W 34 Me 42
Married 7 years together 8
0 kids 1 beloved dog
BD 4/6/2018
I moved out 4/7/2018
I moved back in alone 8/05/2018
I file 3/06/2019
D official 5/7/2019