Irish - one good thing you have going for you should she ever take you to court over custody stuff (not likely since the girls are of age) - but you have it all documented here, including the girls' refusals and your attempts to soften their attitudes.
As for the "husband" - I give it a 50:50 chance of even being true. I doubt I would mention it if it isn't true - why cause additional hurt to your girls?
