Patience, DB, Detach... piecing or divorce

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THanks loves. I’m getting there. Anyone familiar with WAS becoming weaker and more fragile while LbS grows from the pain and is forced to build themselves back up from the rubble?

W comes over to get D3 today. 1.5 hours late phone died. We were really nervous though she got in an accident or something. But she got lost and whatever she went to the DMV today and had the hardest time. She is struggling to deal with life. I think she needs help. Starting to question things I’ve wanted more and more. If we were to spend time together I don’t know if I’d even like her. Feel like she’d need therapy.

She is talking about packing for the beach being the last thing she wants to do and having anxiety around her mom... freaking mess. Many people have told me ive outgrown her. I’d hope to give her the benefit of the doubt and say if you want to spend time you need to work on yourself see someone’s and choose to want to be my wife long term.

Something Sandi said a few posts ago hit home - act like you’re free and back on the market. So that’s what I’m doing.

Running tryouts tonight and down to the beach tomorrow. Can’t wait.

Thanks all!