nothing to be ashamed of by snooping. I call it gathering intel. You need to be informed to make sound decisions.
Get out of her way when talks about how she has to leave you. Just say OK. Don't argue or reason.
She's getting out for "girl talk" or whatever that could be - which could be a number of things.
Go do you for a bit - GAL. Call your buddies and head out to the bar, play some pool. go fishing. Don't have to talk about your sitch with them either unless you want to.
Thanks. Yeah some of the things I read on there bothered me, but at least no sign of OM, yet.
So I should continue to avoid any relationship conversations for now? One thing I know is, she has been talking to a lot of people/women about this. But literally all of them are divorced, have been divorced, or are thinking of getting divorced. That's fine, but I wish she would get some insight from some happily married women. lol
At least two of her main confidants are apparently definitely telling her to try working it out. I don't know if she continues talking with them in hopes of them changing her mind, or her changing their minds....
I have something to do Saturday night that she won't be involved in. It's hard to 'go out' with our son, but maybe I can just go grab a bite to eat by myself or something for a little bit
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
