What I'm seeing is impression management aimed at her current amour and not at you.
"I'm a wonderful mother but Irish is a big stinky meany!"
Whether she actually married some guy or not is indeed not any of your concern. If you wanted to mention it to the girls you could say that you got a letter from her lawyer talking about some sort of husband or not. Yeah - it would be a bit of a kick but they've excluded her and her nonsense from their lives for a fairly long time now.
I am positive that they do believe their own press releases at least when there is impression management to be done.
It does always make me smile how lawyers are supposed to be scaring us.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells