WW, Will I be loved again?

[mtb1981]

Chris, you are in for a ride, buddy. My WW is an addict, and I've dealt with more crap than I ever thought I would have to. In my opinion, MC isn't going to do any good at this point. If she wants counseling, I'd sugget that she do some IC. My WW has so many unresolved issues. The drug abuse is just a symptom of her problems. Her way to cope. She's going to have to want help before she's able to be helped. Took me a long time to figure that out. Addicts are selfish creature. Their motto is lie, cheat, and steal. Watch your back, and definitely do not believe anything she says. If she is addicted to something, she'll say whatever she thinks you want to hear, so she can get what she wants. Do yourself and herself a favor, and do not give her money. Enabling only makes the situation worse. It's going to be hard, but you can do it. I never thought I'd be able to raise 4 kids by myself, but I've been doing it for over 7 months now, and doing damn well at it too. You got this. Stay strong for you and your kids. And don't get caught up in her games. It's going to piss her off if you don't play, but everyone will suffer if you do. I wish you the best of luck...