I agree with you Will. Im just making sure that i dont confuse detaching and being cold which are two different things. I try to make sure im not a jerk, but also dont want to give her the convenience of her H either. My W has been eating cake and probably ice cream too for a long time. There definitely isnt anything to celebrate.
Together:20 years M:3 years Me:40 WW:40 S15 A suspected:5/17 AC:5/18 BD:8/18 WW in full blown R w/ OM Still under same roof