I agree with you Will. Im just making sure that i dont confuse detaching and being cold which are two different things. I try to make sure im not a jerk, but also dont want to give her the convenience of her H either. My W has been eating cake and probably ice cream too for a long time. There definitely isnt anything to celebrate.


Together:20 years
M:3 years
Me:40
WW:40
S15
A suspected:5/17
AC:5/18
BD:8/18
WW in full blown R w/ OM
Still under same roof