nothing to be ashamed of by snooping. I call it gathering intel. You need to be informed to make sound decisions.
Get out of her way when talks about how she has to leave you. Just say OK. Don't argue or reason.
She's getting out for "girl talk" or whatever that could be - which could be a number of things.
Go do you for a bit - GAL. Call your buddies and head out to the bar, play some pool. go fishing. Don't have to talk about your sitch with them either unless you want to.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
