Well WAW hasn't gone cold though. "Cold" to me implies she stops contact, goes distant, doesn't answer texts, doesn't answer calls etc. We'll my WAW can't go cold on me because I haven't given her the means to. She can't not reply to my texts because I never send her any. She can't let my calls go to voicemail because I never call her. She can't refuse my initiation for meetups because I never initiate them...and most of all she can't refuse me sex because I haven't tried to get it. So really, from where I'm standing, the only one with the ability to go cold would be me. There's simply nothing for her to cold with as far as me.


ME: 43 W:44
M 13 years on 5-5-01
T 18 years
BD 4/27/14
D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date)
WAW moved out 5/12/14
Papers filed 6/27/14
Divorce granted 07/17/14
Our marriage ends 11/17/14