Well I may not necessarily agree with Artista on that particular item. The reason being is WAW well knows that many other women are at my disposal when it comes to sex. She also knows they are good looking ladies. So I don't think she keeps mentioning that as a way to appease me because that would make no sense when she knows all I have to do is drop a text to Sue let's say, and I will be having sex that night. So I don't see WAW thinking I care that much about what she happens to think of my penis.
your take is not at all what i mean... her "appeasement" has nothing to do with sex... it has nothing to do with your sex life... she does not care if you are having sex with other women or not... she is flattering you to keep you thinking she just might be interested--just enough... she does this to keep you around... she assumes you are interested... she has let you know that she is not interested by telling you she is not wanting any relationship with any man right now, and that includes you... but she can't just leave it at that, because that might lead you to completely walk away from her... however, if she makes these flattering comments about your penis, you might stick around and hang out with her... as i have said before, it's all a balancing act...
the balancing act goes like this: WW or WAW or ExW is nice, warm, kind, easy to get along with until she thinks she may have gone too far... and she thinks she has gone to far by LBS responses to her... if she gets the sense that he is getting the wrong idea--which is her wanting to relationship--then she pulls back... she is cold, angry, easily upset, or she is simply not as available... when she pulls back just enough to make LBS realize that she is not interested in a relationship, she warms up again... is more available again... she does not want to give him the wrong idea, while she wants to keep him around for friendship, or plan b... or as a provider when the marriage is in limbo or when they are semi-separated...
