Am I coming or going?

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Funny. HC who never texted me when we were seeing each other felt the need to reach out to tell me how he burned his member by urinating right after cutting up hot peppers.

Funny how that works, huh?

And it seems clear that A) you are an extrovert and B) your love languages are physical touch and words of affirmation (the texting is really affirmation for you).

I'm an introvert myself but oddly, have dated mostly extroverts. (It's kinda handy to have them do some of the social life organizing for you.) It's workable but requires some adjustments. Extroverted CMM for instance would spend every night with me if I allowed it and is bummed I'll be gone on tour for 11 days. I'm personally looking forward to a break because my introvert self needs some alone time to recharge (and even though I am traveling with 2 other women musicians, we are all introverts and can drive for miles without any talking lol).

I'm also a physical touch person and it is indeed luxurious to be involved with somebody who speaks that love language too. (Oddly, even though my ex and I slept spooned together for 26 years, he was not really a physical touch person - maybe that was more a manifestation of his extroversion, he didn't want to be alone even in his sleep!). CMM is very physical touch (as was crazy exBF) and I believe his other preferred love language is words of affirmation.