Ok, I saw that because she is likely in an EA. The catalyst for a W to finally drop the bomb is usually the fact that there is someone else. Even if this EA has no chance of a PA, the fact that she has crossed the line into emotional intimacy with someone else often times awakens a desire for close personal connection with someone. And she doesn't see that as possibility with you.
Have you tried the code to her phone lately? One of the first signs that my W was in an EA was that suddenly her code on her phone and other accounts got changed.
Obviously that was my first suspicion too, and I haven't ruled it out. I mean seriously, all of the 'red flags' are definitely present, but I can only go with what I know for now. And honestly, and I'm probably wrong, but I don't really see it mattering all that much either way. If there isn't anyone now, there will be soon I'm sure. And if there is, there isn't anything I can do about it.
Yes, I'm not proud of it, but I have. Code is the same. Nothing from any guys at all (of course conversations could be deleted). Just some texts to friends, family, and female coworkers about how much she's struggling with all of this, thanking them for their support, etc.
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
