My Mom called yesterday evening and informed me that W didn’t bring S6 over to her house yesterday as S threw a fit saying how he needed “mommy time”. W ended up taking S to work with her.
My mom then read me the text exchanges btwn W and her. W claimed that my travel for work were impacting S in a negative way and that she was blaming me for S6 irrational behavior. Yet she is the one that has farmed S out to anyone that could take him during her time.
My job requires 50% travel and I’ve been behind the last year in the fact that I stayed close to home the last year so W could be with her dying M in hospital and to make sure S maintained a normal schedule. So work has put pressure for me to get out more frequently.,,rightfully so.
So far, W hasn’t been to flexible in handling our custody agreement and won’t take any accountability for her choices that have impacted S.
For the 1st time my mom stated that’s she felt W was in LaLa land and being completely selfish and focused only on herself. It’s crazy to me how W has turned everything around to make it my fault. I know it’s MLC...but W can appear and act completely normal around others, but won’t consider listening to anyone that won’t agree with her.
Patience, Patience, patience...
Any one have suggestions on how to handle?
Me - 38 W-37 S6 M 10 years T 13yrs BD 3/18 W moves out 4/18 W files 7/18
