Before DB-ing, I had insisted that dh get counseling or our life together would be over. After a LOT of pressuring on my part, he did call the practice and left a message. Now that I'm DB-ing, I'm seeing that as more of an ultimatum on my part, and not a real boundary.
My question is this:
Should I just drop it, then? I mean, I can't control whether he goes, and even if I did control that, I can't control whether or not he is ready to use therapy to it's greatest extent.
OTOH, If I don't bring it up again, doesn't that make me look weak?
Last edited by Notavic; 08/08/1803:20 PM. Reason: add sentence
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