About the 2 books DB and DR. I've read through them briefly. I feel like I need to follow more of what Sandi says in the forums and to me directly along with some of the other vets like you. What do you think?
I would say not entirely. Almost all WWs are also WAWs. And while sandi does advocate tougher love for WWs, the basics of DBing are the same.
GAL. Detach. 180s. Be the best LANE you can be.
There are some differences, one of the big ones is not to validate a lying cheater. Though I am not sure I am completely in alignment with sandi on that Validating isn't agreeing or disagreeing, just recognizing their feelings. But I always defer to sandi, She knows WWs thinking way more than I do.
So read the books. The perspectives are invaluable.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
