Steve, Yeah, I've been thinking alot about my interactions with W lately. I actually caught myself wanting to say more but was able to hold back. I haven't had any conversation or text since when I told her to find another place etc. Kids go back with her today. I am really trying to keep things quiet for as long as I can. I will focus on ending the conversations. She usually ends them but I don't try to keep her going either like I used to. I am guilty of wanting to talk more. I realize that silence is better than trying to talk and get info out of her. It usually adds to the fire when I say too much and I feel hurt all over again anyways. I know she is pushing the D and I am seeing the reality of it. I don't think she sees the whole picture and what damage it will cause for so many people. But she also doesn't care right now. I also know that a WW is not thinking logically and running on pure emotions. This is why I am detaching as much as I can and the 37 rule.
About the 2 books DB and DR. I've read through them briefly. I feel like I need to follow more of what Sandi says in the forums and to me directly along with some of the other vets like you. What do you think?
LANE
ME 47 W 38 M17 T20 Separated 5/20/18 D-bomb 7/9/2018 Nothing Filed 4 kids ages 6, 10, 14, 15
