There's a website out there that I learned about recently about "ex boyfriend/girlfriend recovery". Funny concept.
I was listening to a podcast where Michelle Weiner Davis was on w/ Neil Sattin. Very cool and she's done 2 of them with him, both over an hour I believe. She is amazing to listen to, truly. I even like her old content from 20 years ago on Oprah.
Another podcast popped up and it was about getting your ex back. The guy running the site has collected extensive data and the overwhelmingly best way to get your ex back is to cease all contact. There's more to read than this, but it's a good read.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.