I read through my whole thread last night. Started to read DR book last night. I have lost focus. This morning I made an appointment to visit a divorce mediation firm for a free consultation..

I have been a door mat. Have been walked over, It stops. I have no idea what she is waiting for but I am fed up and decided to force her hand. I will have the R discussion with a focus on working together to stay married. I expect a negative response. At this point I will provide her with the information I receive from the mediation firm.

In Ontario I cannot serve divorce papers without going through a true separation. This is my last resort. If the information I share with her about my consultation is enough to have her agree to try to work things out. Great If not, I have done a 180 and have taken the initiative to commence the next step and I am not sitting idly by to let her dictate what happens next

Don't count the days, make the days count.
Mohammad Ali