I wrote a post and deleted it because I am reluctant to advise on this because

You always know what to say to your girls so go with your gut

If it were me I would say something for the same reason DNJ said no secrets

And who knows why all this activity now but it is clear to me you are handling it all as well as possible with no spinning

Crazy story about the woman on the lawn so so so not your circus


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving