Hey! I'm mad. I posted to you yesterday and it looks like it never made it to the board. Ah well, I'm sure it was my fault.
Anyway.
Hi Wonder!
What I wrote about yesterday was that I was flabberfasted by H moving in with OW, and telling others about it without telling you directly. I'm pretty mad at him for that. No wonder he didn't answer your question. Yes, we should have compassion for them, but -- come on, guy!
Well, I think we can be pretty much certain that this living situation with OW will not work out for long. It's sounds very reactive and ill thought out.
Based on what you've shared about your H, I do think he will eventually pull himself together and find some wisdom. But you have grown so much, you are far beyond him on the road. It's not fair to you to have to stop your progress and wait for him to catch up. He'll just have to run twice as fast if he wants to even come close. So I hope he gathers up his strength and goes for it. For now I am disappointed and angry with him. I guess not a proper DBing attitude, but it is what it is.
