Irish - I thought for sure the Jeep would win out. smile Red is a great colour, I am sure D18 loves it.

A follow up letter from her L. Goodness she’s wound up, and again on a 16th Birthday. She sure has something for holidays and other special days - a not the good way.

Her husband, ya pretty big shock. As for the remainder of the letter and her demands, you handled that very well. Your reply very well done.

I advise telling your girls the truth. You always have, they are strong and they deserve to know. It is best if it comes from you. Besides you, parents, etc... don’t want to keep secrets from Ds.

I think your daughters are very strong, like their father, and will bounce back from this devastating news quickly.

The whole thing seems a little orchestrated on exwife’s part. A way and time to announce her husband? It was quiet for so long. I may be reading too much in to this, and it really doesn’t matter at the moment.

Just shake your head and keep doing what your doing.

Take care Irish


Feelings are fleeting.
Be better, not bitter.
Love the person, forgive the sin.