I appreciate everyones' input but I'm with Artista here. Making a move is not happening. I do know WAW well enough to know if she wanted me, I'd know it. Plus to be honest here, I'm kind of bored with WAW. I can't believe I'm saying that as I hoped for us to meet again...but without any spark from here...I'm just bored with her LOL! So for now, I'm staying away. I'm not going to keep hanging out and that's it like this when at any moment she could be the one to cut it off. Nope, no way, not risking that. That way if and when we hang out again... she'll clearly be pursuing me and not dating at all. I still think this date story she told me is a load of BS...but even so the fact that her desire (by lying/or not) is to relay she's dating...is unacceptable to me. That tells me I am expendable since dating someone could lead to her ending our meetings as we both agreed. Nope, fuhgeddaboutit LOL! Not doing it. In getting out while the gettin's good. There will be no arranged meet up. If she appears at my work, which I feel will be her second step to see me, I'll just be myself. She's not getting to spend anymore extended time with me until she demostrates worthiness.
ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14