Letting go for my own inner peace

[Irish M]

Hi KML

I have said that so many times over the past 3 years to them.. I'm sure it will one day hit them as the truth.

Hi bttrfly

thank you for the D16 Bday wish. she had a great birthday. well 2 of them. One with my entire family and a second one with friends over. Bank has my girls back. they have been dealing with me and my XW for so long and when we starting o put this money aside it was set in stone. For education. So the bank knows that XW is off the chart.

DnJ

yes car shopping was fun. I would of went more sport or jeep but practical and economical it was. Red, so still a nice looking car.

Yes its crazy how much our MLC'r lose all moral values and common sense.

As for nothing will happen until Xmas.. i was wrong


received a second letter from her lawyer.

1 - Demanding the name of he hospital and doctor following D16.

2 - Reminded me that she as a mother can reach out to her daughters when and how many times she wants.
that it is not up to me if she does or not.

3 - That goes for my parents, this lawyer says that her client can email or call my parents when she wants to discuss the girls.

4 - That i am not to speak poorly about her husband .... WHAT. HUSBAND???
so she left OM1 in January 2018. Moved in with this guy and is married to him. Wasn't OM1 her soul mate in July 2017 and they got matching tattoos on their wrists to celebrate the date they met. crazy

ok back to the letter.

5- under no circumstances do i attempt to contact her myself.

well this was an easy one to respond to. Actually i got it yesterday. On D16 birthday. Sort of a theme there.
waited until just now to reply.

it went something like this :

Lawyer blah

D16 does not wish to share her medical doctor with your client. Under the provincial law after the age of 14 she is not required to do so. I have updated your client in the past and during the year and a half of tests and specialist. Your client has not once asked about her. I continued to update her and now with the restriction in place I will refrain from doing so.

as for communication with the girls . It is up to them to respond. If they feel it is too stressful they have requested that we get a restraining order in place.

as for my parents . I have included their emails in this correspondence. They are both well area of the situation and request that your client refrain from contacting them in the future. Not complying will result in a restraining order as well.



I did not comment on her husband. and I will not email her directly. Easy to do since both actions are not worth it..

this lawyer is really playing her for a fool and getting some nice fees out of her.

Sent it to mine and he sent me back a LOL .

The girls will find out that she is married and I feel that they will now want to close that door for good.

Now do I tell them or let it slide? They will find out and I know they will be devastated.


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