Yet Another LBS w/ WAW

[LANE777]

Hong--I am having a horrible day today myself. I know how you feel when you say You don't truly think you will be alright without your wife and being able to cope with a broken family. This is so new to us that we are still stuck thinking its all going to be back to normal. I keep coming back to the forums because you guys no what I am feeling. Today I came home and cried for a minute...I'm so emotionally destroyed. So heres the deal. You wrote some good stuff on my thread a few days back. It made me feel good. You gave me advice and I took it. Please take your own advice. I bet you would have told me not to go to the movies...However I probably would have gone anyways. I am proud that you are trying like crazy to get your W back. Ive been told its a marathon. Its going to take a while. I feel like if we detach from our Ws long enough we will be better off in the long run. My oldest D15 is a wise soul. She just looks at me and says " Dad, your doing everything right" "Let her go figure it out" " She knows what we want and she's putting on a show like she's happy"
Hong-- we have to be stronger than the WW. I feel so weak but know I have to be strong. You and I need to show our kids who the stable one is. They will know more when they grow older. Don't ever breath a word about taking your life because thats just passing the pain and hurt on to the ones who love you. I will be praying for everyone on here from here on out. I want all of us to find our happiness again. Our worlds were turned upside down by one person. I know we will all have better days soon. So lets keep each other motivated. Keep detaching brother. You can do it.