Hi Sweetie ~
Just got caught up with you. I am sorry about your news. Our situations are getting more and more similar by the day! (I know, I know, GF vs. OW, but the feelings are the same.....)

You said something on my post about closure and conflict avoidance. Do you feel like you need closure? I do!

H once told me he wants me in his life after the D......I guess my questions are teh same as yours.......
-what does this look like? Dinner and a movie once a month?? LOL!!

I think your MIL is WAY off base. You are obviously handling thing VERY well and she doesn't like it 'cause her son is messing up his life! Oh well, hold your head up high ~ you have done all the right things!!


Happiness is like a butterfly: the more you chase it, the more it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it will come and sit softly on your shoulder.... (thoreau)