Need Guidance moving from new comer to MLC,

[marina7]

sjohns6,

Thank you for kind words, yes is already hard no need to add people judgement especially what W did to us.

Interesting question, can we reconcile, as many of us this rollercoaster ride on emotions is hard. There's days I wish W would fight for us. But also there's days W does more damage being around. Yes I am a lbs that one day I can say nope to much damage to reconcile but there's days I remember the good days W waa caring, motherly, W would do anything for us, me and kids. Example s10 was in ER and W came as I called her to inform s10 was sick. W seen I didn't have a jacket W went to car got one, also when W taken s9 and d10 to eat W brought me back food to eat W stated I got you your favorite. W also was worried I didn't take my medication as I was there all day with s10. But also W monster a couple times when W didn't get her way. It was a interesting 8hrs in ER different personality in W.

So at this moment yes kids and I are emotionally broken as we all got the bd with no warning. But I know with God anything is possible so this is why everyday is a day at a time.