We are now going to be entering our fourth year with no direction either way. The truth is I will never be ready to give up. My marriage is worth saving. I never thought of either of us being the victim. Your quote has so much merit. She is pig headed. Strong willed. I have become much stronger. I know I do not need her in my life. I used to think I needed her. I want her in my life. I know with the boys she will always be apart of my life. That is not enough. Sometimes I think she needs to read the divorce remedy. She has the misconception the boys will not be overly affected by the demise of our marriage.

We both have been dishonest, did not communicate We recognize that. Those mistakes are true lessons we can build on


Don't count the days, make the days count.
Mohammad Ali