There will be no easy time to do this. I have been waiting for her to serve the papers. Txhubby is right and I know I should. There is a reaso she has not followed through. I think it is the kids. She does not want to be the (for lack of a better word) the villain in the eyes of our boys.
Yep. She is waiting you out. Then she can claim to be the victim. "He divorced me!"
I know you think you need to do something, and maybe you do. You've given it over a year, no one would fault you for throwing in the towel. Just make sure you are really ready. Your "As far as me serving the papers, I am not there yet. " comment has me questioning that.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
