JS, is she your W? Is she part of the family right now? I would say move her over. If and when she moves forward with D (and I am thinking that is less and less likely with every day that passe) you can do a life changing event with HR and remove her.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018