Congrats on the new job! That sounds awesome! That is a great step forward for getting on with your life.

What would happen if you cut your wife off your insurance? You are still living together, right? My first thought is to say cut her off and let her take care of herself, but I don't remember all the details of your sitch.

W 34 Me 42
Married 7 years together 8
0 kids 1 beloved dog
BD 4/6/2018
I moved out 4/7/2018
I moved back in alone 8/05/2018
I file 3/06/2019
D official 5/7/2019