Yesterday I had quite of bit of interaction with W, as I dropped S6 off at her place. I had my IC apt in the afternoon and had my son stay with my mom for roughly an hour. I had texted W that I would drop S off at 5:30 b/c I lead my support group on Monday nights and it's very important to me. W clapped back that she needed him dropped off at 6 b/c she wanted to go to a Zumba class. I held my ground and she relented. (progress). Fast forward to the afternoon, W sends text that she wants S6 to be dropped off at 4:30 so she can go to a later class. I reply that we were at my Mom's house and couldn't get S to her place by that time. She then sends a passive aggressive text which I didn't respond to.
Right before I leave my mom's house, S got stung by a bee...which was a huge concern b/c he has severe allergic reactions and may been required to go to ER. Luckily some Benadryl did the trick, but W called immediately when I texted that S was stung and acted like we were H&W of old.
I get my son dropped off earlier then she originally requested...but now she has no plans to do anything and just wants to get school supplies w/S. During interaction, she was cordial and didn't show any coldness.
Last night, I was handling some bills and I received a couple of medical bills that I had to ask W question about so texted her. She replied immediately and said she would pay for the expense and sends me a kiss emoji..
Long and short, I'm realizing that I'm having a really tough time with Detaching.
I've been reading NMMNG and do believe I have some of those tendencies.
Working to get back my masculinity....but its a process.
Me - 38 W-37 S6 M 10 years T 13yrs BD 3/18 W moves out 4/18 W files 7/18
