did I make the right decision? not saying pursue her, talk R, the works, but between the two pursuit/detach is there some middle ground that might have provided a better result such that I as an LBS would not feel like she might be right/justified in hitting me with that comment?.
It is called the "illusion of action" you feel like you have to do something to get her back. The only thing that works is time and space along with you becoming awesome. NOTHING else works long term.
The hardest thing for people here especially newer people to really get a grasp of is that it takes TWO people to want to make a relationship work. She is not there RIGHT NOW! Can it change in the future? Absolutely!
I will tell you one thing though. Odds are against her coming back to the same man she left. So how does B become a new improved version?
