Advice on my Scenario Pt. 21 - Garden in my Bucket

[DonH]

I don't think I've posted much if at all of your thread. However it is always so amazing to me when people here act poorly to those with years and years of experience who try to help them. Then they claim it's the spouse acting terrible, unreasonable and is responsible for the breakdown of the M. Yet who is the common demonination in the scenario? It's very telling.

You can either claim all of these people with years and years of expierence, following proven principles by experts are wrong or figure as a 30 year old know it all snowflake millenual they might not be the bad guy here. There's no way anyone gets their life back on track this way.