Originally Posted by LH19
Originally Posted by equalzr
That said, when youve been with someone for 20 years, my entire adult life, its a huge hole to fill. As has been said on here before, I have to basically date myswlf now, because i have no idea who i am outside of my M/family life.


This a big problem and probably has a great deal to do with why you are here. You need to do some serious work so this never happens to you again.

Who is E and what makes him awesome?


Yeah, unfortunately i realized this after this situation started. Wish i knew everything i know now years ago.


Together:20 years
M:3 years
Me:40
WW:40
S15
A suspected:5/17
AC:5/18
BD:8/18
WW in full blown R w/ OM
Still under same roof