My story. Advice needed

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Steve,

I have no illusions there is any magic bullet out there. Do i search for more kmowledge about the subject? Absolutely. I realize it is what it is and there isnt anything i can do about it. If everything works out right, Ill be taking some huge steps in being the best me I can be in the next few weeks.

Sounds good. You just seem overly focused on it being an MLC It is like a counselor told me a while back. To you it is a MLC. To your W it is an epiphany. An awakening. It is the best thing that has ever happened to her. She sees no crisis in it whatsoever. From her perspective her thinking has never been clearer. It sometimes helps to think of it from her point of view.

WOW! These are exactly the words my W used when this started, almpst word for word. "Awakening" was definitely the term. I wonder if that was her word or counselor fed then?

She definitely thinks its the best thing to have ever happened. She says the last 2 years is the "most fun" shes had in her entire life. Crazy how scripted this entire thing is. You would think there would be better resources out there to deal with this by now. Way too many M's, families, and lives being destroyed.