OK, you are entitled to your opinion. I am obviously done here. I have been here a long time, and you have a long way to go.
Actually, my profession requires me to be sensitive yet firm. I have had helped family make life and death decisions and other major life decisions. To help people face realities they are not ready to face. Luckily my track record has been pretty good so far.
Little do you even realize, I used approach 1 and approach 2 with you. You do actually gloss right over the "logical" method. You don't hear it. But you don't hear method 1 either. So, I agree, maybe not the best either Because you are in a spot where you only want to hear what you want to hear. Sure, I may not talk your language all the time, but when I do, you don't even know it.
We can agree to disagree. But I'm good. You are the one with clear struggles seeking for something everyone can't give you. You want to run from the boards and mistake help for "mean".
You have a whole life ahead of you and a beautiful little boy you are going to be raising with this woman. I can only wish you the best of luck.
