My sibling is berating me for adopting a let her go mindset. Sibling says I should be telling my WAW and WAW family that I am ruining my kids and her step kids life and that she needs to work on the marriage, because WAW and WAW's family are too scared to give her a wake up call. I disagree with this approach and believe lovingly detach is the only way forward. Any advice from the board on how to keep your family away from trying to intervene or how to respond in this. In a way, sibling did not like my WAW from the beginning and now says I deserved this. Many thanks. I feel like I am being dumped on by my family.