The way I read that is that she is stating what her WAH is saying, i.e. that is his opinion of the sitch, not hers.

Of course, it is all on him.

W 34 Me 42
Married 7 years together 8
0 kids 1 beloved dog
BD 4/6/2018
I moved out 4/7/2018
I moved back in alone 8/05/2018
I file 3/06/2019
D official 5/7/2019