Advice on my Scenario Pt. 21 - Garden in my Bucket

[OrangeK]

you cannot seem to abide being disagreed with, or told you are wrong.

try asking questions instead of drawing assumptions and jumping to conclusions.

What seems to you to be a more effective method of communication?

1.) (your, preferred method)
"What you are doing is wrong, you should be doing ABC not XYZ. You are only hurting yourself, why dont you listen and learn and do what we all tell you? we have been there, we know better"

2.) (a logical method)
"I think what you are doing isnt helping you, perhaps you should try ABC not XYZ. How has ABC worked out for you and why do you think its the best method? How does it make you feel, and how would the idea of XYZ feel do you think?
I think if you look at different approaches, you might find more success. Here is what I experienced, XXXXXXXXXXXX, do you think that applies to your sitch at all? Hope this helps, try thinking of it this way, or that way, maybe itll feel better"