e, I will tell you from the day my W and I separated every single time she came to pick up our D, she could NEVER look me in the eye. beyond feeling like that straight up meant she wasn't being honest or was guilty or whatever...truly I marveled at HOW she could even do that every time. anyway completely agree with Steve, either she is not being honest with you in the moment and/or she hasn't been honest with you in the past. if you evaluate within yourself would you want to be married to a W who you knew was dishonest to you...there's strength and detachment available for you in that.
