But just let consistent actions speak, right? Don’t hang out with her, let her miss me don’t be available. I just wonder about if / when we should spend time. Is it if / when she wants to date or Not unless she says she wants to work on the marriage?
You will know. It will be obvious and you won't miss the signs. But yes, GAL to the point where when you aren't with D3 you are BUSY BUSY BUSY. W invites you over for dinner, you are busy. No details. Don't tell her what you are doing. Even if she asks play coy. Mystery, wonder, curiosity are your friends.
Also, Did, be careful with all of this. Your W has more incentive to play nice and throw you 'keep him attached' bones. It is called $2325/month. And while the agreement was temporary, she probably has designs on nicing you, and giving you false hope, into extending it. I know the request is coming. Has she done anything to improve her self-sufficiency since she got her own place? There is an old saying, "Why buy the cow if the milk is free?" Your $2325/month is free milk. What is she doing in order to buy the cow?
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
