Just out of curiosity, does anyone here know if there is a correlation between MLC/WW and eyes darting around. Ive noticed that my W doesnt really hold eye contacy w/ me anymore(probably in part to the life shes living(A and lying)?), but also that her eyes seem to just dart around rapidly when she is telling me something. Its weird because i know shes lied/lying to everyone involved, myself, OM, her parents, i think siblings are getting half truths, and she also lies to our S about whereabouts and what not.
Similarly, i noticed ever since this ordeal started she always wears sunglasses. I dont know if this doesnt have anything to do with anything, but I get the feeling its some connection with being sneaky, hiding, etc. Shes never used them before and now she has them on even when its darn near dark out. I almost feel like she thinks shes putting on some type of mask, and thst she gets a high out of the entire thing.
Just some out loud thinking by me.
e, this shows she isn't being honest with you. Remember, WASs/WWs rarely say the truth. That is why you believe NOTHING they say and only half of what they do.
I know you keep mentioning MLC. I was like that at first too, I really focused energy on finding a "root" cause. It is like trying to find a pot of gold at the end of a rainbow. We think if we can get a root cause we can shoot it with a magic bullet and fix it. The bottom line is why your W is a WAW and WW is less important than what you need to do. And that is to GAL, 180, detach and be the best equalzr that you can be.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
