At the same time, the fact that he had that thought, or even that he was able to verbalize that, is problematic. Nicole, I am sure you would make MC a stipulation of R. This is one of the things that has to be worked out with the help of a good counselor. Otherwise you will wonder for the rest of your life if he really meant it or not.
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