thank you arsh! I am definitely pouring all the love I can into my little D!
so yesterday I received a text from W saying that we will need to split up the items in the house. to which my internal reply was "um, yeah we will". rather a self obvious statement from W. my guess is that with me taking D yesterday, W was probably just throwing a jab at me. don't believe a word, never give up...I know those well, but seems D is inevitable not like it wasn't something I hadn't figured already. anyway I played extra hard and loved extra sweet on D last night. a GF of mind after hearing all about my sitch and me trying to relay how it was all my fault was like "B my H and I have experienced everything you just said and survived none of that is malicious nor justifies your W D'ing you. then she asked me "why in the world would you want to save this marriage?"...she's right of course. instead of a prayer for best wishes for you all today, if you find yourself hurting and as you know your sitch, ask yourself that question...you may find some strength within yourself that you didn't otherwise realize you had.
-B
B there is always hope. I just started a new thread as my last one hit 100 posts. The summary I gave is that if you had told me in Dec. (or even Jan and Feb) that I would be in R today I wouldn't have believed it. My W was saying and doing things that suggested that our chances of R where vastly outweighed by our chances of ending up D'd. It can happen, as I just told another poster, as long you both have breath in your bodies. Even if you end up D'd, that may not be the conclusion of the matter.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
