This statement he made confirms what I wrote in a previous post about how I believe my husband would try to come back if I were in another relationship. I don't even have plans to date, we're still married and even if we divorce I don't plan to date anyone any time soon, but if I were in a new relationship I think that would evoke a major response from my husband.
So you know my opinion is that you shouldn't reconcile with a guy who says he wishes his daughter had never been born.
Well I'm a true believer that things get said in the heat of the moment that may not truly reflect how life is. Nic look at his actions long term versus what he says in anger. Are his actions of a man that deeply regrets his D's life?
We all have that moment in time where we think about where life would have taken us if we had turned left instead of right... we are all allowed to have those thoughts on occasion but if obsessive about such things that is when we need a life assessment.
My ex's initial gut reaction was to insist I abort our surprise child. That wasn't a choice I was willing to make for myself but I am pro choice. Of course he was angry. 17yr later we co-parent this soon to be adult. I will NEVER let my son know his father said this EVER. Moments of fear and panic over the biggest thing in your life shouldn't follow you around forever - instead I let the last 17yr speak for itself.
Certainly at some point in time speak with your H over the hurt this statement caused but don't forever judge him by it - look at his actions over time.
